Mariko Groosman Mooiman | 真理子グロースマン

“Biologically speaking we are 50/50, but how would you rate your hāfu-nes?”

生物学的にはハーフは日本人と外国人の比率が半々(50/50)ですが、自身ではどれくらいの割合だと思いますか。

Please share your answer to Mariko’s question in the comment area below.


About Mariko:

FatherDutch
MotherJapanese
Born inthe Netherlands
Lived inthe Netherlands - Japan
Age30
Speaks Japanese⚫⚫⚫⚫⚪
Reading and Writing⚫⚫⚫⚪⚪
SpeaksDutch - English - Japanese

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  • Elissa Hishikawa says:

    I said 50/50 and realized that’s not it. What I aim everyday to be is 100% in both culture. that’s what I am really

  • Elissa Hishikawa says:

    I feel very split in the middle. I read and write and speak like a native in Both English and Japanese. I spent my first 12 years in Japan going to regular Japanese schools there. I only knew Japanese then. I learned English later….

    I never doubted me being a Japanese as a child. I was nothing else then. That is the base of who I am. I had to learn to be American later. which took a while. like 30 years, but I finally feel that I’m smack in the middle. Appearance, language, thinking…. everything! even from books I read to TV show I watch, food I eat. it’s all 50/50 .

    I am THE hafu.

  • Ken Visser says:

    When I was younger I felt very connected to being half Japanese. As a matter of fact, I wanted to be more Japanese. As I grew up I felt more comfortable in this ”hafu” roll. When I’m in western countries I like to accentuate that I’m Japanese. But in Japan I do the opposite. In my footballteam in Holland I’m the Japanese guy. During my internship in Japan, I liked to be the Dutch guy. Maybe I just like being different at times. So I guess my ”hafu”-nes fluctuates based on where I am.

  • Todd says:

    I feel I am Japanese on the inside and non-Japanese in how I present myself to others. I have always identified more with Asian culture and philosophy than Western and have felt somewhat like an outsider in America – I find there is very little overlap.

  • Facebook User says:

    For me, really depends on where I am! When I’m in Japan, I realise how Western I am, and vice versa. Plus I tend to complicate things further. I’m half-Japanese half-Belgian by nationality, but grew up mostly in The Netherlands, so I feel Dutch most of the time. 😉

  • Facebook User says:

    embraced both sides equally, but have never used the term hafu tho…

  • Facebook User says:

    Me 80 % Asian looking 20% White looking.

  • Facebook User says:

    One would think I had pondered this question harder, but I guess not. As I grow older, my face is more like my mother’s but I still have reddish high-lights to my hair. What I like to eat changes day to day, but may make me seem more like my American father (not a fan of raw fish.) My inner space may be more like my mother. If I had to come up with a hard number, I guess I am truly hafu and proud of it. Thank you for raising this interesting question.

  • Mari says:

    I have always been WHOLE. Not half of anything. I am double. Both Japanese and Italian American.

  • Facebook User says:

    I used to say I felt 60% Spanish and 50% JP since I grew up mostly outside of Japan, but after having lived there and realizing a lot of my inner thinking and mannerisms that separated me from my friends back home are pretty Japanese…I feel the opposite now…and then there’s the food factor….can’t live without Japanese food…

  • Facebook User says:

    But most Europeans (for example) are all mix-n-match back for thousands of years so my kids are 50% Japanese, 10 % Viking, 20 percent Irish Celt, 6% Roman, 12% Scottish, 2% French…. I just made that all up, but you can see what I mean, and that is assuming you buy into the ‘pure race’ Japanese thing which I don’t (of course…, since my IQ is into double figures). That’s why I think ‘Hafu’ is used much more in Japan than anywhere else where nationalities mix. But then again if we are just talking nationality and not genetics….

    • Facebook User says:

      I’m sure you’re correct that “Hafu” is used much more in Japan since it’s a Japanese word; however, its English linguistic equivalent “half-Japanese” is very commonly used in my home country, actually much more there than in Japan in my opinion. Many people there readily use the prefix “half-…” when describing their own background, and to acknowledge each of their parents individual ethnicities or nationalities as the see them 🙂

      • Facebook User says:

        ハーフ is the Japanese word, but I wasn’t being nasty about the expression, this group taught me to accept it. At first I didn’t like people calling my gorgeous girls (daughters) ‘hafu’, where I grew up I heard ‘half’ used more like in half-breed and half-caste and it seemed a very negative expression complete with it’s implication something/someone isn’t ‘whole’. I was surprised that so many folk on this group are proud to use ‘hafu’ about themselves, so I relaxed, you taught me it was OK. I guess the language is ever changing.

        • Facebook User says:

          Thank you for sharing your honest thoughts, and acknowledging the importance of this identity to those for whom it has great personal relevance. 🙂

  • Facebook User says:

    On looks 25/75 Japanese. Feelings 60/40 Japanese while in Japan and 40/60 Japanese while in US.

  • Facebook User says:

    looks i’m more gaijin… but….. on the inside…. i would say i’m gobu fifty.

  • Mari says:

    Goedeavond Mariko!

    I’m half Japanese and half Canadian.
    Looks wise, I’d say I’m 90% Canadian and 10% Japanese.
    But my mannerisms are 80% Japanese ^_^

  • I’d say I look less Japanese, more towards non-Japanese side. So on a scale of 1 one to 10 where 10 is totally Japanese looking and 1 is totally not-Japanese looking I’d say I’m a 3. My fb friend Kenny Alwardt is a 10

  • Facebook User says:

    No one ever guessed that I was Hafu. But everyone who try to guess from where I am…Usually go for a Southeast Asian country… So… I’d say 35% to 40%?

  • Ken says:

    That’s like asking Dutch or Japanese “how do you rate your Japaneseness or dutchness?”. I’m just what I am.

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