Miki Koch | コフ美希

“Being raised by one parent only, how would you react if you met your other parent for the first time as an adult?”

片親だけに育てられた場合、大人になってからもう一方の親に初めて会うとしたら、どのように対応しますか。

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Profile:

Father	Japanese
Mother	El Salvadorian
Age	29
Born in	Japan
Lived in	Japan
Speaks Japanese	⚫⚫⚫⚫⚫
Reading and Writing	⚫⚫⚫⚫⚫
Speaks	Japanese

プロファイル：

父	日本人
母	エルサルバドル人
年齢	29歳
出生地	日本
今まで住んだ国	日本
日本語会話のレベル	⚫⚫⚫⚫⚫
日本語読み書きのレベル	⚫⚫⚫⚫⚫
話せる言語	日本語

3 comments

Melissa Sachiko says:
July 6, 2018 at 00:32
My Japanese mother stayed in the country of my Dutch father, because my sister and I were already born there and didn’t have a Japanese citizenship.
Even though a lot of things have happened while my father was missing and left traumas, I still can’t resent him because of his own terrible traumas and past. My sister on the other hand will never forgive him nor does she have mercy for his situation which I can also understand.
The last few times I met him after 15 years of not knowing his whereabouts was unfortunately in the hospital when he was close to dying. With the miracle that he lived through that I had no regret seeing him to say goodbye at that time. Now I’m still trying to get the courage to meet him as just a person instead of a father. There is much to be learned about the other parent that brought me into this world and I want to hear it out of his own mouth. I know his story and he knows mine, now I just want a full normal random conversation as just two individuals.
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Atsushi says:
October 13, 2017 at 21:33
(english/japanese).
I dont have this experience personally, but imagining…I would certainly want it to happen, and I would definitely think it would be enriching and interesting one way or another.
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Shinoda Cindy says:
October 1, 2017 at 04:15
I never meet my other parent, but if I do, I wish I talk to them as an adult, not their child. Whatever it is, my parents has their own reason to separate. And I forgive them.
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